Dating Guides – Is There Such A Thing As A Gentle Letdown
Dating Guides – Let’s say after going out with a man for a few months, you realise that the relationship is going stale and the passion is gone. You wake up one morning wondering how long can you go on pretending that everything is alright. Your head says that you need to come clean and end the pretense, but your heart cannot bear to hurt him. What would you do?
There are things in life that needs a closure and ending a relationship is one. After knowing a person and loving him, it is definitely a pain to suddenly realise that he is not the one for you. You know in your heart that he is a good person, and worse still, he is also a good friend. The only thing different is that you don’t love him the way a woman should love a man.
So what do you do? Do you just leave with a Dear John letter on the pillow? Or, take him out to Joe’s Taco and blurt it to him that you just found out that you have stopped loving him? No answer is the right answer. No matter what you do, it’s going to hurt him bad. But tell him you must. You may want to get your hands on some dating guides to iron out your dating issues.
No matter how hurt he is going to get, you have to play fair. Don’t leave him with the feeling that he is to be blamed. Don’t imply that you are the bad person for leaving him. Feelings change and both of you must find a way to make the leaving as gentle as possible.
Accepting a broken relationship is not easy for the one who wants to leave, and especially for the one being left. But staying together gathering dark feelings is not the best situation to be in. A clean break must be taken irrespective of how bad both of you feel. Maybe later, when all the heartaches subside you two can be friends again. Maybe both of you can be together dating with your very own partners.
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